Cancer Has Been a Blessing
When I was diagnosed with inflammatory breast cancer at 38, my world turned upside down. It was aggressive, rare, and had a high recurrence rate. My surgeon explained that the typical remission might last three to five years, but I knew that wasn’t enough. I wanted to live—not just for myself, but for my family, especially my five-month-old granddaughter.
Facing the Diagnosis Head-On
The day I learned about my cancer, I told my oncologist, "Don’t try to save my breast and put my life in danger. I can live without a breast." That decision marked the beginning of my fight. My doctor recommended an aggressive protocol from the Dana-Farber Cancer Institute in Boston.
The treatment plan was overwhelming: chemotherapy three days a week, every other week, for four cycles; high-dose chemotherapy with a bone marrow transplant; a modified radical mastectomy; and six weeks of radiation. It was daunting, but I was ready to fight.
Finding Strength in My Granddaughter
In those early days, I often walked with my granddaughter in her stroller. She couldn’t understand my words, but talking to her gave me clarity. I promised her I wouldn’t leave—I would be here to watch her grow. That promise became my anchor, and when my doctor asked if I’d undergo the intense protocol, I said yes without hesitation.
The Treatment Journey
In July 1993, I began chemotherapy. By November, I was admitted to Dana-Farber for high-dose chemo and a bone marrow transplant. I set a goal to be home for Thanksgiving, and I made it.
In January 1994, I had a modified radical mastectomy. When the pathology results came back showing no residual cancer cells, I was overjoyed—it was the best news we could have hoped for. After six weeks of radiation, I completed the protocol in April and returned to work in June, nearly a year after my diagnosis.
How Cancer Changed Me
Cancer has reshaped my perspective on life. Before, I took my health for granted; now, every day feels like a gift. I’ve learned that I am stronger than I ever imagined. Surviving this disease took courage and resilience that I didn’t know I had.
My family played a critical role in my journey. Their love and support carried me through the darkest days, reminding me that I had so much to live for. I wanted to stay in their lives for years to come, and that determination fueled my fight.
Giving Back
Today, my mission is to help others facing cancer. I share my story to inspire and guide those going through similar experiences. My mother always said, “Everything happens for a reason.” I believe I was given cancer so I could help others see that survival is possible.
Finding Strength in Loss
Losing family members to cancer strengthened my resolve. When my cousin passed away just weeks before my transplant, I visited her grave and vowed to fight for both of us. Her courage became my inspiration, and her memory gave me the strength to endure.
A New Outlook on Life
Eighteen months after finishing treatment, I feel healthier than I have in years. Cancer once felt like a death sentence, but now I know it doesn’t have to be. I am living proof that you can battle cancer and win.
Although the journey was painful, cancer has been a blessing in disguise. It taught me resilience, self-confidence, and the power of love and determination. I know now that I can face anything life throws at me—one day at a time.
Cancer is a difficult journey, but it’s one that can lead to strength, growth, and a renewed appreciation for life. My hope is that my story inspires others to fight, to hope, and to believe in the possibility of survival.
Credit
Adapted by the story “Cancer Has Been a Blessing” written by Kimberly A. Stoliker featured in Chicken Soup for the Surviving Soul.
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This blog was reviewed by Dr. Sourabh Kharait.
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